My husband and I are selling our house where we have spent 28 happy, important years. We raised our family here, expanding and changing the house as our family grew. Now that the kids have gone, it’s time for another loving family. We will move to a smaller place where we can lessen our carbon footprint.
I am sorting through years and years of accumulated “stuff”, making piles for giveaway, piles for recycling, piles for storage, piles for the kids. Vietnam Veterans, Big Brother/Big Sister, the Epilepsy Foundation and other service organizations gladly come to your home for unwanted items still in good shape or you can drop them off in their donation bins. Freecycle.org is another way to get rid of things. Our town dump recycles electronics, appliances, books, metal, and clothes. They also have a “dumptique” where you can dispose of discarded items – you barely get out of the car before someone grabs something!
I curse all the technology around the house that is obsolete almost immediately and comes with way too much packaging and the ubiquitous wires, plugs, and chargers that go with only one device. I can’t believe all the CDs that no one listens to and cameras that no one uses now that we all have smart phones. It’s shocking how quickly video games, players, and VHS tapes are outdated. They can be donated thankfully, to thrift stores and freecycle.org.
Then, there are those things that can’t be donated or recycled and that I just can’t throw into the landfill, like dried-up make-up, partly used personal care products, old partially used paint cans, spent markers and pens, half-burned petroleum-based candles, the countless samples doctors give out that definitely shouldn’t end up in the water table – the list goes on and on. These items pose a real challenge. GreenAmerica.org posted a list of where to recycle all sorts of unusual plastics like old yoga mats, Brita pitcher filters, and technotrash, and there are websites that offer ideas for reusing and crafting items like torn blue jeans. Unfortunately however, some items have to be thrown away.
It’s a lot of work to dispose of things properly, but it feels good, it’s cathartic. I keep coming back to the thought however, that we all have way too much stuff! Recycle, yes, reuse yes, but let’s reduce too! Now, in my next phase the key is not to re-accumulate! Who needs anything anyway?
If you aren’t familiar with Annie Leonard’s “The Story of Stuff”, it’s really worth watching this clever 20-minute animated documentary about the lifecycle of material goods. Click here to visit her website.

Posted by amy nachman on January 17, 2013 at 11:24 pm
you have changed my way of thinking- i used to think all i had to do was recycle.
now i see that i have to purchase & use less , also. and donate .
Posted by betsywild on January 17, 2013 at 11:27 pm
I’m glad that I was able to change your thinking. Now, if other people can change theirs too! thanks for commenting. Have fun getting rid of “stuff”!
Posted by Pam on January 17, 2013 at 11:26 pm
Wow…you are doing what i must do in my house..clean out and pare down, throw out and recycle..thanks for the inspiration and
good luck with your transition.
Posted by betsywild on January 18, 2013 at 1:44 pm
It feels good! I’ll be in touch soon!
Betsy
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Posted by betsywild on January 18, 2013 at 1:45 pm
I think you live right near us in East Sandwich. Our farm is on Roos Road, right off Spring Hill Road and 6A! It looks like you are doing very interesting work. I’d like to know more.
Thanks for commenting.
Betsy
Posted by Gayle Atchison on January 18, 2013 at 2:46 am
Good luck with the house. When r u coming back to Montgomery?
Gayle
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Posted by betsywild on January 18, 2013 at 1:43 pm
I’m not sure, but I’ll let you know. Linda and Amy had a blast with you all! Hope all is well! Miss you……
Posted by Born To Organize on January 18, 2013 at 7:48 pm
Oh, Betsy, you are speaking my language. I work through these issues with clients all the time.
I suggest people say no to samples or items that are “free” because in the end they clog our lives and our landfills.
What a big move after so many years. Best of luck with all of it.
Great post.
Posted by betsywild on January 18, 2013 at 9:00 pm
Thank you for commenting. Good idea – simply say “no” to samples. It is a big move, but we are ready.
Thanks -
Betsy
Posted by Born To Organize on January 19, 2013 at 12:14 am
I’m excited for you. Will you remain in the same community?
Posted by betsywild on January 19, 2013 at 12:29 am
Yes, we are renting an apartment in the same town, splitting our time between here and our farm on the cape. Renting will give us some time to figure exactly what we want to do. Thanks for your interest.
Posted by Born To Organize on January 19, 2013 at 12:35 am
Wow…”farm on the cape.” That sounds positively romantic. Go Betsy!
Posted by betsywild on January 19, 2013 at 6:24 pm
It’s a little slice of heaven!
Posted by Born To Organize on January 20, 2013 at 1:36 am
I have no doubt. I hope it makes its debut on your blog.
Posted by betsywild on January 20, 2013 at 1:54 pm
Absolutely!
Posted by katie on January 22, 2013 at 6:19 pm
Kudos to you for lessening your footprint! I agree that it feels amazing every time you’re able to clear out “stuff” that is holding you down. The list from GreenAmerica is tremendously helpful for a purger like me. Thanks for sharing and I hope you enjoy your new place!
Posted by betsywild on January 22, 2013 at 7:52 pm
Thank you for commenting! I look forward to checking out your website.
Betsy